Not often through tears do I post memories because I like the good stories. This is not one of those times. I am trying with all of my might to just be okay and it's not happening. I have not put on clothes today and had it not been for drama at work my conversation with Pooh would be the extent of my interaction. I just did not feel like IT. All day I have been alone remembering and trying to forget walking from the living room to the bedroom to the dining room to the living room to the bedroom thinking but not thinking.
This is one heavy place to be, wanting to go and wanting to stay. I have always said that I don't do confusion well and I realize I really don't.
Mommas last night here was tough. I got up and went into her room and we prayed and I talked and she responded as best as she could. Afterwards Catrese came and we went in together and Trese held one hand and I held the other and we prayed some more. I had no idea that this would be our last night after spending what seems like an eternity at the hospital but I knew that I did not and would not see her suffer. My (our) mother was a very gracious lady that would not send her children through the tough decisions that some children have had to face and when the time to go was upon her she did it with as much dignity and grace that we had all come to see in her in our lifetime. This by no means makes her leaving any easier but it can help to know that she always wanted to be remembered as the best mother she could have been with the hand she held and in every sense of our beings we all know that she is.
I am torn up and hope that when I go to the cemetery today that through the aching heart and the tears I can honor, show appreciation, and represent the great lady that gave us all a fighting chance to be the great sisters, mothers, aunts, wives, neices, girlfreinds, tomboys, cooks, leaders, girl scouts, gardeners, pet lovers, ladies, but mostly CROWDERS that she taught us to be. I will take all of the love that she gave and received with me and even tho I may need to do this alone I know I am not for I am a Crowder and with that I know I am never alone.
So to all of the Crowder/Carr women I say... You know who you are and you know what you're made of. Keep it going. In time we'll be "Just Fine".